and @thejerrybryan— having 2 spouses is NOT the problem as I have many who had 2 spouses that show up right as ’ spouse of’ for the blood relative and no relationship for the 2nd spouse of the non-blood relative…
and Tom the asymmetry is very confusing-- going back to Squire Green showing as spouse of instead of 3rd g-- well Squire was married twice-- so when I go to his 2nd wife ( with no kids) her relationship says
so IF I did NOT know what was going on here, I would be wondering which one of Squire’s 8 brothers she was married to!!!
Thanks for all the info
edit wouldn’t mind doing a small drag n drop or small gedcom BUT not a large one IF I MIGHT lose other info…