Hi everyone;
I am a relatively new user with RootsMagic 11 and have had a few issues with using the Ancestry Webshare feature. The issue outlined below doesn’t always happen but I have found the problem a half dozen times over the past few months. (I still consider myself a new user even though I used RootsMagic back in the RM3 days and upgraded to the latest about six months ago.)
The issue is that when adding a spouse to person who shows the correct spouse both in RootsMagic and Ancestry, I am not given the choice to Link the two individuals. I can only Add either one to the other database.
Here is an illustrated example:

If I click on the Ancestry spouse, I only get the option to Add to RootsMagic. If I click on the RootsMagic spouse, I again only get an option to Add the spouse to Ancestry.
When click to Add the Ancestry spouse to RootsMagic, I get the following. This initially looks like it is going to work. However…

Once again, clicking on any of these three possible spouses only gives the option to Add to the other database. I never get the expected option to Link to the other. I can add duplicates any number of times to the opposing databases but never reach the point of having the option to Link rather than Add them.
So far, the only solution I have found to this is to delete the person I am trying to the link spouse to and then reconstruct from scratch. This is very time consuming.
My two questions are:
- What causes this situation to arise? (As mentioned, this is the rare, but annoying, exception and Adding and Linking spouses usually works fine.)
- What is the correct set of steps to fix this when it happens short of deleting the person and recreating from scratch?
John



